3 Deadly Mistakes To Avoid When You Want To Create Rapport – Part 1

When done well, creating rapport can be an extremely powerful way to connect to a person.

And to gain his trust. So that you will be in a position to easily persuade him to your bidding.

Creating rapport is about forming a bond with the other person. You want him to like you.

But doing the wrong stuff can quickly destroy whatever rapport you have created.

So what are the deadly rapport killing mistakes you want to avoid?

1. Trying To Be Too Nice (And Looking Like A Wuss)

Covert persuasion is about being in control. Your intention is to control his mind to get him to listen to you.

Being nice is generally a good way a rapport going. But being too nice is definitely not NICE!

Why? You are seen as a wimp. A wussy even. It’s like you are bending over to others.

You don’t want to create that image. Because you can lose your “attractiveness”.

Don’t be nice to an extent that hinders your capability communicate your thoughts and feelings.

And also when you are too nice – you may appear as insincere. Everyone hates a faker!

2. Trying Too Darn Hard…

That’s one of the worst thing you can do.

To try too hard to please. To try too hard to bend over to other’s request. To try too hard to make everyone happy.

But in the end – no one is pleased or happy. And the only loser is you.

Sometimes the harder you try, the more likely you are to fail.

Get over it. Put in a good shift. Work hard. But don’t over-do it.

3. Being Too Pushy

Have you ever been pestered by an insurance agent?

You get calls from him over and over again – even when you tell him you are not interested?

What is the impression you get of him? Desperate? Too eager to please?

This is exactly what others will think of you when you do the same.

Especially so when you go all out to please. Others will think you are too free…too desperate…and too weak!

You put them under pressure, and instead of getting their desire, you create a counter effect instead.

Have you ever made such mistakes? I willing to bet you do. Well I doo too. These are great ways to demolish any rapport building. And you will do well not to commit such killer mistakes in future.

You will demolish any chances of a hypnotic conversation you are supposed to create. So take note!

More of killer mistakes on building rapport soon…

Yours Sincerely,

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