People listen to you if you have the power and behaves like a leader.
They have the power of irresistible influence. That can attract anyone like magnet.
In the same way, people listen to kings and nobility with high status, you can get others to listen to you when you grasp the 4 key traits of an authoritative leaders.
What are they?
Authoritative Traits #1 – Calmness
A good leader is always calm and collected. Cool as a cucumber. Even in the most threatening of situations, he is unruffled. Nothing fazes him.
You want to emulate this exact same body languages.
The way you talk as a leader is important too.
If you are going to speak hesitantly with lotsa of “uhmmms” and “ahhhh”, what does that tell others about you?
You are basically saying you are hesitant and lack confidence.
That can kill off your credibility. And severely erode your persuasive power.
Authoritative Traits #2 – Use of Space
Leaders make very good use of space. They open themselves up to the world.
